Sunday, November 30, 2014

The New Job Market: Take A Look Around


“Big jobs usually go to the men who prove their ability to outgrow small ones.”
Ralph Waldo Emerson
 

            If you’ve been in the same job or career for over five years, chances are the employment market process is quite different from when you last sought a new opportunity. Rapid and complex might be the best words to describe it. Wrapped up in the day-to-day tasks of doing our work, it’s easy to forget to look outside of our area to see what’s happening around us—the shifts, subtle and seismic.

            Some of this information is probably not new to many of you, but keeping up with these career evolutions can be overwhelming. It certainly ain’t what it used to be! So much more is expected of us as citizens and employees. Employers are looking for employees who can contribute to an organization to keep it competitive, along with well-informed people who exhibit potential.

            But just how do we follow these shifting chronicles in the job market?

            As you read books and listen to a variety of recommendations on career topics, be aware of a couple of things. Each decade has brought its progress and predicaments. First, if the person making recommendations is telling you to just go to the employment office and apply or look in the newspaper classifieds, chances are they’re a bit out of touch. While such advice may be well intended, times have warped forward. Yes, there used to be a time when longevity in a position, qualifications, and hard work would earn you a promotion. Or maybe you could have tried pounding the pavement, visiting several companies and putting in an application or submitting a résumé, hoping for an interview and a subsequent job offer. These days, this is rare.
 
          Technology prevails. Now, an online presence is not only helpful, but also essential. CareerBuilder, Indeed, Monster, and log-ins to company websites are required and consume time in a job search. LinkedIn, Facebook, Twitter, and other social media outlets can provide job leads.
 
         Whether it’s the old way or the new way, a well-planned strategy will land you interviews, jobs, positions, opportunities, and career promotions.

Friday, October 17, 2014

Be Tenacious! Ride the Trail of Life's Winds



Tough Times Never last, But Tough People Do!
Title of a book by Revered Robert H. Schuller
On a bike ride on top of a volcano in Maui, 2001


"Hold on!"

            As wild bicycle riders, my play gang during my youth and I would yell these words to each other as we circled the house—jumping ditches or mudholes, cruising over  rocks, knocking over playmates—or anything else in our way—peddling our ‘no speeds’ as hard as we could.  We were usually doubled up on the bike— one doing the leg work while standing— the other one perched on the seat, holding the other's waist, head, arms, or whatever provided the firmest grip. Occasionally, a third person would hop on, riding the handlebar or a rear wheel seat. Fierce and focused for big fun, we rode that limited but challenging route around the house on the bicycle, since we were not allowed to venture out into the road. Occasionally one of us would try to show off and take both hands off of the handlebars…and then everyone fell down. 

            I continued to enjoy biking and at one time lived close to an extensive and intermittently demanding trail in Alexandria VA. The trail’s proximity to the Potomac River brought beauty and peace to the ride for me. However, on windy days this location was particularly challenging. Headwinds coming off the river prevailed, slowing my ride and causing me to hold on tighter when I reached dangerous curves and downhills. I was concerned about falling because in spots the trail was further surrounded by miry marsh and rocky deep ditches. My helmet offered some protection and I shifted gears as necessary to negotiate the path. Those were not times or places for any tricks like riding with my hands off the handle bars. Paying attention to these moments, the call for me was to still ‘hold on’.

            The trails of life can yield weighty winds and stumbling stones, but being steadfast can help us to ride them out. ‘That which doesn’t kill us can make us stronger.’ Let’s maximize our motions. With our protections of faith, creativity and a firm foundation of focus— we can do it. 

            Another one of my favorite gospel songs tells me, ‘Just like a tree that's planted by the water, I shall not be moved.’


            Our talents provide a framework of protection for us to peddle hard on the journey.

Excerpted from my motivational autobiography, Navigating Life’s Roadways: Stories of Insight from My Odyssey and Inspiration for Your Journey in print and Kindle eBook http://www.amazon.com/dp/B008FQDPYE

Monday, September 15, 2014

Charge! Four Routes to Your Leadership and Life Purpose



What centers and lights the way for you at your place of being in charge? How do you map your way through life?

Organizational mission statements and strategic plans are designed to provide this scope. In life, we may be faced with many battles. Going up our own rough side of the mountain, it’s important to know why we’re climbing. Is there a vision?

Many events in life are ordained, part of our purpose, and they may involve suffering before victory. Leaders need to be on point. Parents need to be focused. An outcome must be sought, dreams turned into reality. Both are sources for guidance and direction, all for achieving the objective.

For the military, no war is fought without a purpose and a plan. During battle, the purpose is to support and defend while staying alive, willing to sacrifice if necessary, proud to serve!

Cause and direction are essential. This scope is to be drilled down to the lowest level, orienting soldiers to the mission and how to take action. Trickling even further, soldiers are issued a compass as a tool to help them orient themselves to where they are and traverse the battlefield. GPS technology also supports this effort in current times. You can’t win without direction and battle orders.

            Driving was also another area that surfaced quite often in our family gatherings. With two uncles that were long haul truck drivers and another one who traversed the country for his military assignments, I too took on the messages from the open road.  Metaphorical and purposeful, driving offers insights geared to continuing the charge in leadership and life.

            There were four strategies I gleaned from him for the long haul:

 

1.      Define where you are going. So set the coordinates.

 

It starts with a vision.

. “Keep your eyes to the sky,” one of my uncles advised as I took on my first long distance road trip. “Read the directional signs and know the name of the next big location or city you’re headed to. Continue to check your map before you get on the road, and each time you stop for a break, familiarize yourself with your route. This will keep you from getting lost out there. You’ll be all right.”

I was—trip successful.

Lesson link. Put a plan in motion with relevant and actionable steps. Where do you want to go and how do you get there? Be very clear on your coordinates.

 

2.      Open all lanes for learning.

Mistakes, setbacks, and disappointments are inevitable. What will you do with that knowledge? Gridlock and resistance show up. We will have learning curves for him when it comes to earning buy-in from those we lead.

  1. Don’t be afraid to change destination.

Steer on in spite of roadblocks and potholes such as the economy, a career shift, or lost resources. Find a new route. Use another skill to still be of service.

  1. Crank your motivation motor constantly.

Be driven and self-motivated to remain on course. Keep the fuel ignited. Think about why you’re there as a leader. Do you have a passion for your deliverables? Is there a link to your life purpose? Does it afford the flexibility or income potential you seek?



Excerpted from my book, Hardcore Leadership: 11 Master Lessons from My Airborne Ranger Uncle’s “Final Jump”   http://www.amazon.com/dp/1479324760
 

 

Wednesday, August 20, 2014

Navigating! For Success in Life, Destress! Can You Find Serenity Square?

Navigating! For Success in Life, Career and Business Pursuits: Destress! Can You Find Serenity Square?:   A rope which is pulled for a long time, breaks. Kaonde proverb, Zambia                I’m a fan of the Shrek movies and ...

Destress! Can You Find Serenity Square?


 

A rope which is pulled for a long time, breaks.

Kaonde proverb, Zambia

 

            I’m a fan of the Shrek movies and have a few of them in my video library. In the first movie, my favorite scene is toward the end: Shrek is in trouble, held by guards in a castle under the direction of the aspiring King of Far-Far-Away with whom he’s embroiled in conflict over their mutual love interest, Fiona. Shrek’s friend Donkey bursts onto the scene through one of the castle’s elegant windows, riding a dragon (his new found love). He says, “All right, nobody move! I got a dragon here, and I'm not afraid to use it! I'm a donkey on the edge!”

             Donkey had been traversing the kingdom dealing with his friendship with an ogre and a mission he’d joined him on. They’d shared many trying moments.

            This rescue effort was the final strand!

             Sometimes we’ve just had it.

            There’s too much going on with work, family, community and the world. Maybe we’re trying to do it all, or experiencing anxiety over money, or wondering if our jobs will be there tomorrow— these issues can start to take a toll. Our tolerance level for all things wrong and crazy has hit a limit. 

            How do we stretch our 24 hours a day, 7 days a week?

            There’s no doubt that burnout is real. We’re tightened up and our ropes are fraying. Questions to ask ourselves might be:

            Are we using structure and flexibility to manage our rigorous schedules?

Have we identified priorities? Do we have hobbies that help relax us?

Are we able to get help from others at work or home?

             Answering these questions and giving ourselves some slack, we realize whatever the cost is— it’s worth it for all that matters. Then we decide to lasso and reel ourselves in from the brink. Taking an inventory and giving ourselves a much-needed break can sometimes give us a whole new perspective.


            De-stressing within the lines of reason will help with our time management techniques. Tame or train the dragon as our partner!


Excerpted from my motivational autobiography, Navigating Life’s Roadways: Stories of Insight from My Odyssey and Inspiration for Your Journey in print and Kindle eBook http://www.amazon.com/dp/B008FQDPYE

Saturday, July 19, 2014

Tuesday, July 1, 2014

2014 Mid-Year Review – How Are You Leaning?


Be Inspired and Lean Into Your 2014” is the slogan that came to my mind as the New Year approached. Like many I had several items on my resolutions list, goals of the personal and professional kind, determined to keep me in this motivational state. More business, lose weight, be kind to everyone…, some standard “I’ll do betters and a few different ones sprang up.

So here we are at July 1 and half of this year has quickly gone by. And for me it’s time to assess and ask myself a few questions—to do a mid-year review. Yet another list to respond to: Is there anything I can check off as accomplished? How am I doing overall with those  goals?  Do I really want the answer to these becomes another issue to ponder. Well it was a snowy winter so I didn’t exercise a lot and comfort food eating became the convenient option. Then when I’m truthful with myself, I own up to what did go right, even with a struggle. A few new clients with business travel, different speaking engagements, and author talk/blitz at local libraries.

Revisiting our actions can be difficult, but often necessary. So I’m posting a few inquiries for thought in obtaining inspiring and leaning status.

What inspires you?

How do you lean in to your purpose?

Who are you when your best self is evident?

For many of us, a basic sense of feeling in control of our lives, showing up authentic, taking care of our physical, mental and spiritual being with a healthy sense of self-esteem would be filtered into the answers to those questions.

So why aren’t we always there? What gets in the way or things that become hold backs?

Certainly life’s disappointments, our habits, motivations and perspectives can flow out in each of those areas to send us spiraling downward.

I realized that it’s easy to be caught in a few of those hold back attitudes from achieving my best “inspired lean into”. Letdowns and cookie monsters reigned.

What’s my now?

“You can always begin again” is one of those spiritual sayings that resonates most clearly.

I’m taking a few steps to move forward.  The weight issue was one of my biggest personal challenges, I got way off course. But I’ve been out for walks and workouts over the last month. Momentum is always good! Then while out on a walk one morning, more clarity came in the way of this statement.

Sometimes we all need a little PUSH. Purpose, Understanding, Support, Healing.

But nothing beats the ultimate PUSH. Pray Until Something Happens!

And “your latter can be greater.”

Stay inspired! Keep leaning into this energy!

 

Friday, June 6, 2014

Fight Your Fears: The Freeway to Victory


It is easy to be brave from a safe distance.

Aesop

Getting promoted to Lieutenant Colonel, US Army Reserve in 1998
 On this 70th anniversary of D-Day we honor the bravery, valor for those in the quest for ultimate victory -freedom!
I think we should all find those moments everyday - as life presents it's own type of battles.  Where do we find this grit, the hardcore guts of courage to keep going in spite of inevitable challenge and adversity?And master our own fears? I'm reminded of my own times of facing fear and eventually conquering fear, especially when I joined the army.

            "Uncle Sam doesn't really care about your fears!" barked my drill sergeant—a phrase I vividly recall from my first days in the Army.

            Arriving for basic training at Fort Jackson South Carolina on a hot June day in 1978, I was immediately assigned as a squad leader in the 4th platoon. My drill sergeant knew I wanted to go to Officer Candidate School (OCS) so here was my chance to get ready for leadership. All of a sudden the concerns and issues of nine other scared and confused young women were mine. I was going through my own shock and socialization into the Army way of life and now I was to guide and help others through the transition as well. The physical, emotional and mental challenges were many; all of us wondering if we'd made the right decision and if we could survive the demands of a military structure. I wasn’t quite sure what to make of this situation. There was much to absorb—and fast.  

            What do I do? 

            During the six weeks of basic training at Fort Jackson I kept asking myself, What is the worst thing that can happen? My goal of going to OCS was uppermost in my mind and it kept me listening for messages of strength and success. I also built on my watchful experience with my siblings as an oldest child, finding ways to keep us focused and out of trouble. Asserting myself when necessary, assessing what my squad needed and then assisting them as best I could kept my mind brave. I had to close the afraid gap by taking steps to fix the problems. In the end my squad stayed intact, good relationships were formed and we all graduated. A mission was now completed, readying me for the next phase of my military service.

            I had gotten up close and personal to this FEAR.

            What is fear? False Evidence Appearing Real.

            Sometimes our apprehension has to be put in perspective. Yes it's healthy to be a little afraid, as fear can invoke good judgment. And there are some things to be anxious about when it comes to safety, crime or health challenges. Most importantly though, we can't let fear overwhelm or freeze us into inaction.

            Let’s have the right arsenal of confidence and faith ready and at our fingertips—use them free and fast. Then claim a personal victory!
 
Excerpted from my motivational autobiography, Navigating Life’s Roadways: Stories of Insight from My Odyssey and Inspiration for Your Journey http://www.amazon.com/dp/B008FQDPYE
 

Monday, May 19, 2014

Mistakes Matter: Reviewing Lessons from Milemarkers of Life's Journey




There is no foot that does not stumble.

Zulu proverb

 

            There are times when I've felt it was important to do a review of my life journey and ponder not just the successes but ask: How many times have I messed up?

            So in the name of being self-aware and not afraid to go there, I continue: Let me count the ways (a few for starters):


·         Acted like “a chuckle-headed fool” (one of my grandfather’s favorite terms) 

·         Made wrong decisions resulting in unfavorable circumstances in my career

·         Said things to people I wish I could return to my mouth and mind

·         Operated at the whims of my emotions - carelessness (at times)

 

All of my mistakes have cost me in some way—spiritually, physically or financially.

There are always consequences for actions or inactions. Our faults rack up.

             In life we face our natural disposition to do wrong, intentionally or unintentionally. Slips of the tongue and bad judgment calls follow us. Employees make errors on their jobs so we comb over our bills to make sure they’re accurate. Politicians spout gaffes that offend. We’re breathing, spirited beings operating from our inclinations and prone to struggle with the mix of our own divine and demons. We fear making mistakes, but there’s no way to avoid them. It’s ingrained in the human condition that there is no perfection.

            “What did you learn from this?”

            We’ve all been on the receiving end of that question from parents, bosses or friends. There is a place for thoughtful consideration as we revisit our mistakes. We can regroup from the aftermath of the misfortunes of our actions. In The Odyssey there is a major theme running through it, teaching us that the human spirit with the most growth and strength is the one that is tested and weakened through the process. Though instructional yet ambiguous, we don’t always see the fall-out from our mistakes.

             Some consequences of our wrong deeds show up much later. A few of mine are permanent markers. I’ve revisited many of my own blunders in hindsight, wishing I hadn’t done certain things.  I can’t change what I did, so what’s the answer? What is most motivating to me is that I didn’t count myself out ISO (In Spite Of) them.

            So what do I know in review?

            Goof-ups come with growing up and have their place as a phase of life’s passages. When I’m having my ‘auntie talks’ with my nephew or nieces, I tell them mistakes are inevitable. I tell them they’re going to make them and that the key is not to make too many of them with consequences that are hard to recover from.

            To constantly teeter on ‘to do or not to do’ would make us too fearful to take risks and live fully. As God’s creations we are beautifully and wonderfully made—with our flaws. But there’s help. Lamentations 3:22 tells us, “It is of the LORD's mercies that we are not consumed, because his compassions fail not.” We can count on “Him, who is able to keep us from falling”— always watching and protecting us.

            Yet there are times to rack up our own experiences to learn perils versus positives. Second chances and forgiveness over and over again can decrease the major and minor count.


            Let’s proceed on the miles of our journey and thoughtfully watch our numbers—we don’t want a pile up of mistakes with no lessons as an out... Periodically do a life review.

           
Excerpted from my motivational autobiography, Navigating Life’s Roadways: Stories of Insight from My Odyssey and Inspiration for Your Journey http://www.amazon.com/dp/B008FQDPYE


Tuesday, April 15, 2014

Ramp Up! Find Your Life's Reliable Resources


When you have no choice, mobilize the spirit of courage.

Jewish Proverb

 

Driving highways paved through hills and valleys with their times of ascent and descent can be challenging to navigate. The series of moves to accelerate and brake while rounding these hilly curves is hard if you’re behind the wheel of a car—much less a large vehicle such as an 18-wheeler. Due to the design and load of these big-rigs, a more significant increase in speed happens as they head downhill. This could cause these vehicles to run out of control. For this reason there’s a special sign for the big trucks, designating a run-a-way landing area to the side of the road—a safety pull off.  This ramp is a reliable resource. We’re all glad these extra lanes are there and can count on them to serve their purpose—an out allowing time for the driver to regain control of his truck.

            There are life situations in which we need an out as well—to get off the road for a while. After one of my lowest life moments I knew the next phase involved God’s stamped and reliable plan to bring some control back into my journey. The road to entrepreneurship was now beeping on my radar as a likely destination. My trust in His word and presence ran firm in my IPS (Internal Positioning System), but until the plan was fully revealed, I needed income. I’d been working a series of part-time jobs, telemarketing and substitute teaching, but the pay wasn’t meeting my financial needs. I was staying with a friend, but wanted to move into my own place again. My checkbook resembled a rollercoaster of numbers running from a high of some money to a low of no money.

            Then it came to me.

            Maybe I can temporarily return to active duty in the Army while my consulting business was in its gestational period.

            I put the word out to my friends—does anyone know of this need.

            One of my active duty Army friends knew of a defense department director who’d requested a reserve officer to come in and support technology issues in his office for about four months (known as a TTAD—temporary tour of active duty). My friend put us in touch and I was selected for the opportunity. This TTAD fit my goals well and once I was done with that assignment, others became available over the next few years. Those few months of army officer income kept my finances under control until my business could sustain me. I was glad to have this option to depend on during such a critical phase of my career journey. My service to the army was a reliable source in many ways.

            We all need something to fall back on—family, friends, things, opportunities or skills.  These are valuable life resources.

            FAITH 

            This is such an important message in today's world. What was once secure in work and institutions…not so much now.  It does us well to keep all options open. As the saying goes, “A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.” Watching for our own skid marks, let’s sense when life is heading out of control in one of our lanes.

It’s then time to pull over or off and take temporary refuge on solid ground.  

           
            Identify what we can count on when there’s a need to pull off the road.
 
 
Parts excerpted from my motivational autobiography, Navigating Life’s Roadways: Stories of Insight from My Odyssey and Inspiration for Your Journey http://www.amazon.com/dp/B008FQDPYE
 
 

 

Saturday, March 15, 2014

Fear Not! Seek an Acre for Adventure


In the Netherlands 1986
Hiking in South Korea, 1982
If you're not living on the edge, you're taking up too much space.

Unknown

 

            Back in 1986 I journeyed on a European ISO (In Search Of) experience, with no itinerary, except to go ‘where Deborah hadn’t gone before.’ I had purchased a Eurail pass before I left the U.S., which allowed me 30 days of first class train travel throughout most of the central European countries. This pass came with a master schedule which gave me departure times and tracks to many cities. I was going to board my own Love Train— the O’Jays had told me to in their song by that name back in the 1970s. Also I did something similar during my time in the army while stationed in Seoul, South Korea, taking the train around the peninsula, feeling fearless!

            Did my family and friends think I was nuts?

            Yes!

            My response and line of reasoning, “I want to travel while I’m able. Who knows what the future holds. I consider this my pre-retirement reward! I’m going to find myself.”

            Off I went to explore the great countries and cities of Europe. 

            There were some destinations I had in mind, such as Norway, Italy and Belgium— but when I would go see them, I just left it up to my mood and chance. Space for rest and diversions were top priorities during my foray as well, so I’d planned to do a learn-to-ski program in Austria. The choice to discover a new location was mine and I sometimes altered my travel plans based on the best train connections.

            I’d also purchased a guide book, Europe on $25 a Day, which listed lodging and restaurant options for each major place on the continent. Bed-and-breakfast style hotels fit my budget and I found them charming. The innkeepers at these establishments were generous with information about local attractions. From museums to boat rides to authentic foods, I wandered and explored London, Paris, Lucerne, Switzerland, Vienna, Austria and other places. Riding the rails and seeing the countryside up close was a wonderful adventure.

            After my 30 days were up on the Eurail pass, I decided to hang out in Germany for a while. Several of my army friends were stationed there and offered me a place to stay. One of them had an apartment in a community close to the army base so that location fit better for me. We entertained other friends and it was easy to get to other social events. I even considered looking for a job.  Soon I realized that I wanted to go home. ‘Loose ends’ needed to be tied up.

            When I returned to the U.S. one of my uncles asked me if I “found who I was looking for”. 

            I couldn’t really answer that question.

            I was just glad I took on that expedition. Occasionally as I thumb through my photo albums of the trip, reflecting on that experience, I think about what a bold thing that was for me to do. I also wonder if I could do it again. Youth played a role at that time. I was 31 and a curiosity about the world lit my travel bug. My life was at a crossroad too, so a daring pursuit fit the moment.

            I still crave an unusual enterprise from time to time to break the monotony or provide an adrenaline-type thrill. Now I tend to take on shorter and safer quests. When I lived in Phoenix back in 2001, I once drove to Los Angeles and back in the same day. My goal was to complete the coast to coast drive I started when I left Virginia and moved to Arizona. It felt great—seeing the sign pointing me to Los Angeles from the car instead of the plane. Another test of the mettle and pedal I could put on my daring deed. Checking out local festivals, reading a new book genre —those are more within my limits now.

           The message for all of us... Get out of the rut. Find a parade! Explore a new town! Do what you’ve never done.

 
Excerpted from my motivational autobiography, Navigating Life’s Roadways: Stories of Insight from My Odyssey and Inspiration for Your Journey in print and Kindle eBook http://www.amazon.com/dp/B008FQDPYE
 



Thursday, January 23, 2014

Navigating! For Success in Life, Career and Business Pursuits: Navigate Strong! Finding Your Life's Road of Reali...

Navigating! For Success in Life, Career and Business Pursuits: Navigate Strong! Finding Your Life's Road of Reali...: March on. Do not tarry. To go forward is to move toward perfection. March on, and fear not the thorns, or the sharp stones on life’...

Navigate Strong! Finding Your Life's Road of Reality





March on. Do not tarry. To go forward is to move toward perfection. March on, and fear not the thorns, or the sharp stones on life’s path.

Kahil Gibran

 

            “Life is difficult.” In Dr. M. Scott Peck’s well known book, The Road Less Traveled, this is the first sentence. Startling at first glance, but when we think about these words, it’s very true.  Dr. Peck goes on to say that once we accept this fact, life becomes less difficult because this fact no longer matters.

            Keep going ISO (In Spite of).

            We then focus on the many roads ahead, knowing as we proceed on our odyssey that some truths will become evident. One such truth is that we ourselves sometimes get in our own way and create difficulty. Other times we show out brilliantly, handling our business. Hard stuff happens and none of us are immune. Wonderful times roll around and we all get to celebrate.

            Most of life actualizes somewhere in the middle and that is where we learn—traveling on what appears to be a ‘long and winding’ road.

             I’ve (literally) broken down on the road yet found inspiration in the words of a gospel song that relates, “Nobody told me the road would be easy; I don't believe he brought me this far to leave me.”  These words help me to recognize and use my IPS (Internal Positioning System) more.

            What I’ve come to terms with on this journey we call life is that I have experienced a lot and will experience much more. This range of events has presented many emotions for me, reflective of things I’ve missed and things I’ve cherished. I’m sometimes lonely for a mate, yet proud of what God has allowed me to accomplish. I lament relationships that fell into dysfunction, yet relish those that remain in alignment. I revel in joy over family rites of passage and sometimes sink in sorrow over those who’ve transitioned to be with the Lord. I’ve learned that you can’t always count on those closest to you, but strangers of immense kindness will pass along your way.

            At either end of this spectrum, coping is what we do. We learn how to wipe out and negotiate and handle what’s thrown our way—it’s the Navigator’s mission. Facing the fact that no one roadway will put us exactly where we would like to be, we internalize this tough lesson. With no guarantees for happiness, we reach for it where we can find it. Oftentimes we’ve heard others say (or have thought to ourselves), "If I get this or that then I'll be happy." Trying to keep up with others in current lifestyle trends usually leads to temporary satisfaction, but an ultimate return to dissatisfaction. The important thing is to keep our focus and be optimistic even in the most challenging of times. Where we are is where we are. 

 

            Understand that the roads of life are best paved with managed expectations.

 

Excerpted from my motivational autobiography, Navigating Life’s Roadways: Stories of Insight from My Odyssey and Inspiration for Your Journey in print and Kindle eBook http://www.amazon.com/dp/B008FQDPYE