Showing posts with label courage. Show all posts
Showing posts with label courage. Show all posts

Wednesday, May 4, 2016

Line Up: Decide To Be and Lead


There is nothing impossible to him who will try.
Alexander the Great


To confront the challenges, emergencies, and problems of a dynamic and fluid society, good problem-solving and decision-making skills are critical. Sometimes new methodologies and insights are required, inspired by pioneers, those who are willing to chart a new path to reach organizational and individual objectives. Leaders of today and tomorrow are being asked to do just that—to engage in creative thinking and paradigm shifting in approaching problems to come up with new efficiencies.
            For that reason, the word “change” is constantly used today. Restructuring and reinventing have also brought about new processes, procedures, and policies that make for a challenging the workday. However difficult these changes and challenges may seem, they can also be tremendous learning opportunities. Our power comes from deciding to be in line with this learning.
            But first we must report in and decide to be. Then get busy. 
            Leadership, for personal or professional reasons —must remain consistent and in line.
            When one takes this type of firm stance, it can be a challenge to deal with those who don’t. Making up one’s mind should be simple enough. How many times have we all heard or said this? It’s such a powerful statement regarding decision and change. In one of my conversations with my late Uncle Horace about family members and who, among them, could be depended on to call or act, particularly in a crisis, we agreed that folks use the excuse, “That’s just the way I am.” He came back with, “But it’s time for them to be something else.”
            Yes, there are times to follow that popular athletic shoe tag line and ‘just do it’, to move away from what’s comfortable, and stop making excuses. We are who we are, but it’s okay to try a different way of being, chart new territory, and be purposeful. 
As a leader, each time we walk into a new situation, we have some choices: to be. This new landscape is ours to work and fill. With daring determination, we can choose to move through what was barren to create bounty: poor morale to empowered team, unwilling students to motivated learners, and unsure children to confident next generationer. Decide to change the course by helping others in their quest to be better, starting in the current moment.
            Important also is for leaders to ensure complex situations get the right amount of attention. Too often they dust off really serious issues as trivial. Instead, these problems have layers of stuff that need to be waded through. This era of tweets, microwaves, or solving a crime in sixty minutes of television has led to impatience with the processes that are often necessary to find enduring solutions. Instead, the issues continue to surface. How do we put them under and out of the way?
Once we decide to be, we get our mojo to create a different outcome!
Are you open to creating a new and personal frontier?  If so there are ways to ensure positive change and enduring solutions by enacting the following points.
  • Stake your claim! Define your leadership drop zone.
  • Move fearlessly onward. And explore new territories.
  • Gather your strength. Then focus on priorities.
  • Be curious and open to new frontiers. Create anew.
  • Test the limits. By taking risks.
  • Have a pioneer mindset. Go with your force of belief in all that might be possible. That’s your ultimate power!

            Charge! Be ready to be first! Decide to solve and resolve!

Parts excerpted from my book, Hardcore Leadership: 11 Master Lessons from My Airborne Ranger Uncle’s “Final Jump”  http://www.amazon.com/dp/1479324760

Friday, June 6, 2014

Fight Your Fears: The Freeway to Victory


It is easy to be brave from a safe distance.

Aesop

Getting promoted to Lieutenant Colonel, US Army Reserve in 1998
 On this 70th anniversary of D-Day we honor the bravery, valor for those in the quest for ultimate victory -freedom!
I think we should all find those moments everyday - as life presents it's own type of battles.  Where do we find this grit, the hardcore guts of courage to keep going in spite of inevitable challenge and adversity?And master our own fears? I'm reminded of my own times of facing fear and eventually conquering fear, especially when I joined the army.

            "Uncle Sam doesn't really care about your fears!" barked my drill sergeant—a phrase I vividly recall from my first days in the Army.

            Arriving for basic training at Fort Jackson South Carolina on a hot June day in 1978, I was immediately assigned as a squad leader in the 4th platoon. My drill sergeant knew I wanted to go to Officer Candidate School (OCS) so here was my chance to get ready for leadership. All of a sudden the concerns and issues of nine other scared and confused young women were mine. I was going through my own shock and socialization into the Army way of life and now I was to guide and help others through the transition as well. The physical, emotional and mental challenges were many; all of us wondering if we'd made the right decision and if we could survive the demands of a military structure. I wasn’t quite sure what to make of this situation. There was much to absorb—and fast.  

            What do I do? 

            During the six weeks of basic training at Fort Jackson I kept asking myself, What is the worst thing that can happen? My goal of going to OCS was uppermost in my mind and it kept me listening for messages of strength and success. I also built on my watchful experience with my siblings as an oldest child, finding ways to keep us focused and out of trouble. Asserting myself when necessary, assessing what my squad needed and then assisting them as best I could kept my mind brave. I had to close the afraid gap by taking steps to fix the problems. In the end my squad stayed intact, good relationships were formed and we all graduated. A mission was now completed, readying me for the next phase of my military service.

            I had gotten up close and personal to this FEAR.

            What is fear? False Evidence Appearing Real.

            Sometimes our apprehension has to be put in perspective. Yes it's healthy to be a little afraid, as fear can invoke good judgment. And there are some things to be anxious about when it comes to safety, crime or health challenges. Most importantly though, we can't let fear overwhelm or freeze us into inaction.

            Let’s have the right arsenal of confidence and faith ready and at our fingertips—use them free and fast. Then claim a personal victory!
 
Excerpted from my motivational autobiography, Navigating Life’s Roadways: Stories of Insight from My Odyssey and Inspiration for Your Journey http://www.amazon.com/dp/B008FQDPYE
 

Saturday, March 15, 2014

Fear Not! Seek an Acre for Adventure


In the Netherlands 1986
Hiking in South Korea, 1982
If you're not living on the edge, you're taking up too much space.

Unknown

 

            Back in 1986 I journeyed on a European ISO (In Search Of) experience, with no itinerary, except to go ‘where Deborah hadn’t gone before.’ I had purchased a Eurail pass before I left the U.S., which allowed me 30 days of first class train travel throughout most of the central European countries. This pass came with a master schedule which gave me departure times and tracks to many cities. I was going to board my own Love Train— the O’Jays had told me to in their song by that name back in the 1970s. Also I did something similar during my time in the army while stationed in Seoul, South Korea, taking the train around the peninsula, feeling fearless!

            Did my family and friends think I was nuts?

            Yes!

            My response and line of reasoning, “I want to travel while I’m able. Who knows what the future holds. I consider this my pre-retirement reward! I’m going to find myself.”

            Off I went to explore the great countries and cities of Europe. 

            There were some destinations I had in mind, such as Norway, Italy and Belgium— but when I would go see them, I just left it up to my mood and chance. Space for rest and diversions were top priorities during my foray as well, so I’d planned to do a learn-to-ski program in Austria. The choice to discover a new location was mine and I sometimes altered my travel plans based on the best train connections.

            I’d also purchased a guide book, Europe on $25 a Day, which listed lodging and restaurant options for each major place on the continent. Bed-and-breakfast style hotels fit my budget and I found them charming. The innkeepers at these establishments were generous with information about local attractions. From museums to boat rides to authentic foods, I wandered and explored London, Paris, Lucerne, Switzerland, Vienna, Austria and other places. Riding the rails and seeing the countryside up close was a wonderful adventure.

            After my 30 days were up on the Eurail pass, I decided to hang out in Germany for a while. Several of my army friends were stationed there and offered me a place to stay. One of them had an apartment in a community close to the army base so that location fit better for me. We entertained other friends and it was easy to get to other social events. I even considered looking for a job.  Soon I realized that I wanted to go home. ‘Loose ends’ needed to be tied up.

            When I returned to the U.S. one of my uncles asked me if I “found who I was looking for”. 

            I couldn’t really answer that question.

            I was just glad I took on that expedition. Occasionally as I thumb through my photo albums of the trip, reflecting on that experience, I think about what a bold thing that was for me to do. I also wonder if I could do it again. Youth played a role at that time. I was 31 and a curiosity about the world lit my travel bug. My life was at a crossroad too, so a daring pursuit fit the moment.

            I still crave an unusual enterprise from time to time to break the monotony or provide an adrenaline-type thrill. Now I tend to take on shorter and safer quests. When I lived in Phoenix back in 2001, I once drove to Los Angeles and back in the same day. My goal was to complete the coast to coast drive I started when I left Virginia and moved to Arizona. It felt great—seeing the sign pointing me to Los Angeles from the car instead of the plane. Another test of the mettle and pedal I could put on my daring deed. Checking out local festivals, reading a new book genre —those are more within my limits now.

           The message for all of us... Get out of the rut. Find a parade! Explore a new town! Do what you’ve never done.

 
Excerpted from my motivational autobiography, Navigating Life’s Roadways: Stories of Insight from My Odyssey and Inspiration for Your Journey in print and Kindle eBook http://www.amazon.com/dp/B008FQDPYE