Showing posts with label abilities. Show all posts
Showing posts with label abilities. Show all posts

Sunday, October 2, 2016

Finding Life's Road to Realization




March on. Do not tarry. To go forward is to move toward perfection. March on, and fear not the thorns, or the sharp stones on life’s path.

Kahil Gibran



            “Life is difficult.” In Dr. M. Scott Peck’s well known book, The Road Less Traveled, this is the first sentence. Startling at first glance, but when we think about these words, it’s very true.  Dr. Peck goes on to say that once we accept this fact, life becomes less difficult because this fact no longer matters.

            Keep going ISO (In Spite of).

            We then focus on the many roads ahead, knowing as we proceed on our odyssey that some truths will become evident. One such truth is that we ourselves sometimes get in our own way and create difficulty. Other times we show out brilliantly, handling our business. Hard stuff happens and none of us are immune. Wonderful times roll around and we all get to celebrate.

            Most of life actualizes somewhere in the middle and that is where we learn—traveling on what appears to be a ‘long and winding’ road.

             I’ve (literally) broken down on the road yet found inspiration in the words of a gospel song that relates, “Nobody told me the road would be easy; I don't believe he brought me this far to leave me.”  These words help me to recognize and use my IPS (Internal Positioning System) more.

            What I’ve come to terms with on this journey we call life is that I have experienced a lot and will experience much more. This range of events has presented many emotions for me, reflective of things I’ve missed and things I’ve cherished. I’m sometimes lonely for a mate, yet proud of what God has allowed me to accomplish. I lament relationships that fell into dysfunction, yet relish those that remain in alignment. I revel in joy over family rites of passage and sometimes sink in sorrow over those who’ve transitioned to be with the Lord. I’ve learned that you can’t always count on those closest to you, but strangers of immense kindness will pass along your way.

            At either end of this spectrum, coping is what we do. We learn how to wipe out and negotiate and handle what’s thrown our way—it’s the Navigator’s mission. Facing the fact that no one roadway will put us exactly where we would like to be, we internalize this tough lesson. With no guarantees for happiness, we reach for it where we can find it. Oftentimes we’ve heard others say (or have thought to ourselves), "If I get this or that then I'll be happy." Trying to keep up with others in current lifestyle trends usually leads to temporary satisfaction, but an ultimate return to dissatisfaction. The important thing is to keep our focus and be optimistic even in the most challenging of times. Where we are is where we are. 


            Understand that the roads of life are best paved with managed expectations.

Excerpted from my motivational autobiography, Navigating Life’s Roadways: Stories of Insight from My Odyssey and Inspiration for Your Journey in print and Kindle eBookhttp://www.amazon.com/dp/B008FQDPYE

Wednesday, September 14, 2016

True Wealth: Your Skills, Assets, Liabilities, and Limitations



“I am what time, circumstance, and history have made of me, certainly, but I am also much more than that. So are we all.”
~ James Baldwin, Writer and Activist

            Who are you at the core?
            Each of us has an eternal spring that keeps us pressing on through adversities. Do you know how to draw from that well? It is that ancestral reserve of perseverance and endurance, the nature of your past applied to your current environment, the source to nurture your family circumstances and attend to the challenges and opportunities of the present day. What does this well of abundance look like for you?
            Your journey to your current place in time is unique here, and you are accompanied and your story is enriched by the baggage you hoist.
            Now, it is totally and measurably about you. So what makes you stand out?  Do you also recognize your less-desirable personality quirks that could sabotage your success? Can you identify how to stay out of your own way?

            Self-awareness and knowledge are critical in this shifting landscape. Knowing the ‘good, the bad, and the ugly’ of your personality will afford you the realism needed to fuel your drive down your individual path. This information about ourselves is a valuable tool for negotiating new territory and exploring unrealized opportunities, both professionally and personally. Referred to today as “emotional intelligence,” this knowledge supports us as we navigate a variety of interpersonal situations. In addition to enhanced relationships, this information will help you to “Respect yourself,” as crooned by the 1970s R&B group, The Staple Singers.  We have the knowledge, the know-how to establish a bank of our unique offerings to the world.


Excerpted from my book, For People of Strength, Soul, and Spirit: Seven Guidelines for Life & Career Success, https://www.amazon.com/People-Strength-Soul-Spirit-Guidelines/dp/1479237019



Wednesday, July 6, 2016

Success Street: Find Your Unique Position


Every day of your life is a page of your history.
 Arabic proverb

            Success is……I am successful because…I will achieve success when….
            How do you spell success?  “Setbacks Uncovered, Ceasing Control, Excelling Serious Superstar” Sounds good, doesn’t it?
            We’ve all had a win.
            A turn down a new street made some pursuit easy. The right is ours to define what achievements are most measureable and memorable for us.
            Everyone was not meant to have the perfect family, career, finances or material things. Nor do we all want them.  But for each of us there is a unique formula that adds up to a meaningful, productive and constructive journey. In some way we’ve overcome a challenge, let go of a ‘bad trip’ or found a right way.
            In someone’s view, we’re the best ……
            Fill in, keep driving and seeking to form your success.
           

            As we view the film of our lives, let’s claim every win a blockbuster. Visit your Broadway!


Excerpted from my motivational autobiography, Navigating Life’s Roadways: Stories of Insight from My Odyssey and Inspiration for Your Journey in print and Kindle eBookhttp://www.amazon.com/dp/B008FQDPYE

Saturday, June 4, 2016

Navigation Power: Steer Toward Success




“I have discovered in life that there are ways of getting almost anywhere you want to go, if you really want to go.”
~ Langston Hughes, Poet and Activist



Thoughts For Moving Forward

  • Be determined to move strong, in spite of uncertainty and storms (whatever they look like for you: slow economy, job market, relationship challenges).
  • Rudder at the right signs. Stay anchored in your values, visions, and interests. (Revisit your lists.)
  • Open all lanes for learning. Detours and potholes are there for a reason. (If you fall in or go the wrong way, so what? Find a way out or around.)

  • Explore the right realms, your major motivators. What’s the gas in your engine? (passion, giving back, your expertise, challenge, taking care of your family)

  • Acknowledge fellow travelers. We don’t journey alone (Get support from friends, mentors, and networks.)

  • Plot a route to success that’s realistic. Be confident in who you are and pace your journey to your style. Do you!

  • Rejuvenate. Stop and rest. Take a break, vacation, or staycation (Have a special way to fuel you.)

  • Boldly remain a believer in your own success. See it to the right, left, front, and rear as you check your mirrors. (Engage!)

  • Claim victory at critical times. Segment your successes for each leg of your journey (Small wins are good).



Wednesday, May 4, 2016

Line Up: Decide To Be and Lead


There is nothing impossible to him who will try.
Alexander the Great


To confront the challenges, emergencies, and problems of a dynamic and fluid society, good problem-solving and decision-making skills are critical. Sometimes new methodologies and insights are required, inspired by pioneers, those who are willing to chart a new path to reach organizational and individual objectives. Leaders of today and tomorrow are being asked to do just that—to engage in creative thinking and paradigm shifting in approaching problems to come up with new efficiencies.
            For that reason, the word “change” is constantly used today. Restructuring and reinventing have also brought about new processes, procedures, and policies that make for a challenging the workday. However difficult these changes and challenges may seem, they can also be tremendous learning opportunities. Our power comes from deciding to be in line with this learning.
            But first we must report in and decide to be. Then get busy. 
            Leadership, for personal or professional reasons —must remain consistent and in line.
            When one takes this type of firm stance, it can be a challenge to deal with those who don’t. Making up one’s mind should be simple enough. How many times have we all heard or said this? It’s such a powerful statement regarding decision and change. In one of my conversations with my late Uncle Horace about family members and who, among them, could be depended on to call or act, particularly in a crisis, we agreed that folks use the excuse, “That’s just the way I am.” He came back with, “But it’s time for them to be something else.”
            Yes, there are times to follow that popular athletic shoe tag line and ‘just do it’, to move away from what’s comfortable, and stop making excuses. We are who we are, but it’s okay to try a different way of being, chart new territory, and be purposeful. 
As a leader, each time we walk into a new situation, we have some choices: to be. This new landscape is ours to work and fill. With daring determination, we can choose to move through what was barren to create bounty: poor morale to empowered team, unwilling students to motivated learners, and unsure children to confident next generationer. Decide to change the course by helping others in their quest to be better, starting in the current moment.
            Important also is for leaders to ensure complex situations get the right amount of attention. Too often they dust off really serious issues as trivial. Instead, these problems have layers of stuff that need to be waded through. This era of tweets, microwaves, or solving a crime in sixty minutes of television has led to impatience with the processes that are often necessary to find enduring solutions. Instead, the issues continue to surface. How do we put them under and out of the way?
Once we decide to be, we get our mojo to create a different outcome!
Are you open to creating a new and personal frontier?  If so there are ways to ensure positive change and enduring solutions by enacting the following points.
  • Stake your claim! Define your leadership drop zone.
  • Move fearlessly onward. And explore new territories.
  • Gather your strength. Then focus on priorities.
  • Be curious and open to new frontiers. Create anew.
  • Test the limits. By taking risks.
  • Have a pioneer mindset. Go with your force of belief in all that might be possible. That’s your ultimate power!

            Charge! Be ready to be first! Decide to solve and resolve!

Parts excerpted from my book, Hardcore Leadership: 11 Master Lessons from My Airborne Ranger Uncle’s “Final Jump”  http://www.amazon.com/dp/1479324760

Thursday, March 17, 2016

The Gift in Your DNA


On site at one of my leadership workshops, using my gift to help others...

 

Below is a sermon I preached on using our gifts and talents that God gave us!
 
2 Timothy 1:5-7New International Version (NIV)

5 I am reminded of your sincere faith, which first lived in your grandmother Lois and in your mother Eunice and, I am persuaded, now lives in you also.For this reason I remind you to fan into flame the gift of God, which is in you through the laying on of my hands. For the Spirit God gave us does not make us timid, but gives us power, love and self-discipline.

Today we sometimes face situations in our lives where we’re told what we can and can’t do, swaying us from our capabilities and purpose. Limited opportunities in the job market might cause us feel as though our hands are tied or we’re boxed in from changing our circumstances. Terms such as furloughs, budget cuts and discrimination can bring about fear and discouragement. Even in the church we can get disappointed in service when we can’t see if our work makes a difference. But in this text we are reminded that we must remain faithful because God has gifted us with what we need to move forward in spite of any challenges.

 Because as His creation we’re wired to ‘be all we can be.’ He constructed our human makeup with what is known in science as DNA or Deoxyribonucleic acid, which we learned about in our high school biology classes. the Psalmist tells us that He formed our inward parts; he knitted us together in our mother's womb, fearfully and wonderfully made. Our DNA is also passed down through our ancestral lineage. There is even a test available to find out more about our biological origins.

            And here’s another take, I view the term DNA as Delivered Natural Ability, a gift, a source our omniscient God supplied us with for purpose. Then what can we learn from this text the life of the Apostle Paul about these DNA resources, this man formerly known as Saul of Tarsus, a Christian persecutor who experienced Divine deliverance on a road to Damascus? In the scripture Paul was in a Roman prison and knew his life would soon be over, because he would not be set free this time and more than likely be executed by the authorities. Why? Due to his mission to extend the Gospel of Jesus Christ. Even the conditions of Paul’s imprisonment were different this time; he was chained in a cold cell and had been abandoned by those he thought would co labor with him in the name of Christ.

But Paul did what he could do even in those difficult circumstances. He wrote fearlessly! His talent of having written over 1/2 of the New Testament galvanized the Gospel. In this scriptural letter to Timothy, his son in the faith, he writes to inspire him in the midst of the trials faced by these early Christians. But you know we still face some challenges in the church with even later Christians…and we can get discouraged in service, because church work is not easy…Amen! But now Paul is encouraging Timothy to use what he’s got…even in the toughest of times. In his writing Paul made this prison a pulpit to spread a message of hope because he sensed a low moment in Timothy’s faith. But yet according to Paul’s assessment, Timothy had what he needed from his Delivered Natural Ability. Because Paul and the elders had laid their hands on him, delivered power from the Holy Spirit. And even for us somebody prayed for us, had us on their mind, and said let me lay some hands on that child’ to have better…

So here are three points to further relate how this scripture speak to us today? First we have to recognize our gifts and talents. Romans 12 tells us We have different gifts, according to the grace given to each of us. These gifts can show up as our talents. Either someone remarked that we were born with it, or noted them at a point in our lives. Paul has notices Timothy’s gift for service when they met in Lystra according to Acts 16. Our talents might be in arts, culinary, mechanical, scientific, athletic, musical, educational fields or plain common sense perspectives; the range of what we possess is vast. And like Paul tells Timothy, at times we have to fan into flame or as in other translations it reads kindle afresh, keep ablaze or stir up our gift. Let me pause right here and look at this phrases, especially kindle afresh. For some of us that grew up with wood heaters, you remember how you had to have a piece of kindling wood to get the fire started or when it died down.  We do this now even with fireplaces. Those embers have to be stoked, to strengthen the fire, and the same is true for our mind’s resolve to use our DNA.  Sometimes when we get discouraged we have to strengthen our spark by praising and worshipping God. And as President Obama said in his campaigns, be Fired Up and Ready to Go!

But remember Paul was chained in a cold cell. Then how was he able to write while chained? Evidently his hands were free enough at times or he dictated to visitors or guards who were willing to assist, some rams in the bush.Amen! But think about it, when we don’t use our gifts we can get chained to the wrong thing, be imprisoned by other’s perceptions of us and create our own shackling and not pursue opportunities to use our DNA cells.  Or we may not exercise our gift for fear of being rejected or others thinking ‘ we’re all that.’  Instead let us be on purpose for Him who formed us. And yes we may be abandoned in the process. But remember there is all sufficiency in the Lord, in His grace. And what a constant friend we have in Jesus, who is always by our side!

Secondly we also have Delivered Natural Ability as the result of how parents, caregivers, teachers and our culture have instructed and nurtured us. Back in v. 5 of the scripture Paul notes the faith of Timothy’s mother and grandmother and how strong it dwelled in them. The mention of their faith is designed as an incentive for Timothy. We too have some ancestral reserve of faith and pressing through difficult times, even persecuted for who we are. We’re the product of folks who also operated by their wits. This is a critical part of our DNA and we too should be encouraged by this. I also mentioned that our scientific DNA is hereditary and there’s a biological test to determine our origins. As they say ‘some things do run in the family, or it’s in the genes.” So back in 2009 an uncle and I took this test administered through a company called African Ancestry which specializes in this research.  The female side or matriarchal test I took came back Nigerian of the Yoruba Fulani groups and my uncle’s male or patriarchal test also came back Nigerian of the Ibo group.  Our results matched 100% with current day people living in those areas.  I did a bit more research and discovered that the main staples of those groups is the yam and now know why we love some baked sweet potatoes, candied yams and sweet potato pie! Amen for the yams! Maya Angelou in her poem And Still I Rise reminded us that we come bringing the gifts the ancestors gave; we are the hope and dream of the slave. The skills they brought from the motherland were put to use to survive in this new hostile land.

Our goal is to find these talents and not let others keep us from this treasure. We may not face things of the magnitude in which Paul did, or even our ancestors, but these attributes shelter us in the turmoil of today, becoming our fallback in challenging times. Because we can’t deny that we’ve come this far by faith. God’s Providence is always at work, for progress and for His people. From Selma to Soweto there’ve been faith walks. The old folks, our ancestors learned to make a way out of no way with God.

And thirdly, what do we do with our DNA gifts?  1 Peter 4:10 gives a clear answer here, stating As each has received a gift, use it to serve one another, as good stewards of God's varied grace.

And ultimately, the message here is this: Find and flame this wellspring of gifts. Showcase them for God’s glory! Build on that ancestral reserve of DNA, to not be afraid of the terrors by night or anything that’s trying to block us from our purpose. V. 7 assures us that God has not given us the spirit of fear or timidity But has given us.... power. I was at the airport months ago and saw one of the receptacle stations for charging technology that said, Power, Just When You Need it. That’s what the Holy Spirit is, given to us by an omnipotent God. God gave us His son Jesus as a gift. Delivered in a manager away in Bethlehem, who lived in service, yet was beaten and put in a cell, died on a cross, was buried but rose with all Power.  He loved and loves us that much.

A song that inspires me is Stir Up the Gift!, taken from the words of Paul in our text used in the King James version done  by Joe Pace and the Colorado Mass Choir...

Stir up the gift, Lay your hands on me, Touch me Lord Revive my joy
Make Me, Mold Me, Renew my spirit, Restore my soul
His joy and peace has given us a sound mind
Never should we be afraid Because we have the gift of DNA


Tuesday, August 18, 2015

Career Strategy: Building a Personal Resolve and Reputation


 
            As we move forward in reaching our goals, there are other stakes to put in place with the fast pace of life. Stocking these attributes listed below will keep us built to last, whether we’re operating in a paid or volunteer situation or managing our lives.

·         A Little But Good Attitude

      The rules and conditions will keep changing. There will be failures and setbacks. It’s easy to become bitter. Staying focused and positive is essential to present ourselves well and concentrate for the best decision-making. There may be times to push through obstacles in our way. Gratitude, for whatever the situation, is necessary as well.

·         Get It Together—Organizational Skills

Rounding up all needed documentation, such as résumés (old and new), transcripts, evaluations, job descriptions, and letters of recommendation may be time consuming, but it has a huge return on investment (ROI). You don’t want to go on a fishing expedition when something is needed right away. Next, put them in some type of logical order. A tracking process to catalog research data, log phone calls, résumés sent, and networking cards will also be needed. Use supporting technology in this effort, and don’t forget to record those passwords for company websites when applying online! The same tactics work for tracking any financial expenditures, especially for tax purposes.

·         Who Knows You? References

Have you ‘done good’? Can anyone attest to that? Compile a list of people  who’ve known you in a professional setting, such as supervisors or co- workers. Also include those who can speak to your character. Include personal friends with a solid background; teachers, professors, or family friends. Make sure position titles, addresses (e-mail and postal mail), and phone numbers are current. Contact your references to let them know of your career plans, especially if you haven’t communicated with them in a while. The last thing you want is for a potential employer to call a reference who doesn’t remember you or thinks you’re no longer among the living.

This who-knows-you concept isn’t just for job situations. Many community and professional associations may also require references. Due to the worst of human nature (molesters, scammers, and the like) background checks, of the financial and character type, are now the norm.

Ensure that your social media presence reflects an image that’s aligned with who you are professionally, especially on LinkedIn. Recruiters and interviewers do use Google to check out prospective hiring candidates. Censor your tweets and Facebook posts based on the type of opportunities or community positions you seek.




Saturday, April 25, 2015

Making It With a Vision: Eyes to The Sky


 

 

“Every great dream begins with a dreamer. Always remember, you have within you the strength, the patience and the passion to reach for the stars to change the world.”

~ Harriet Tubman, Conductor of the Underground Railroad

 

            Imagine freedom. Done.

            Vision: A plain message to prevent personal perish.

            From Kunta Kinte to Harriet to Martin to you, we harbor plenty of iconic images of what it has taken and takes today to achieve the right to be. Shackles to shacks and now suburbs, this new life shape is unfolding. From you to me, can we model their grit and, yes, sacrifice? Whatever it looks like in time, energy, money, effort, or even loss, make the picture of your envisioned reality as plain as it needs to be. Imagine your career, your family, and your everything else.

            The dream triggers this new thing that you want. Measureable and to the point is how to capture this goal. Ask yourself: How badly do I want this? What am I willing to go through to get it?  Only you have the answer!

            As Earth, Wind, and Fire sing, “Keep your head to the sky.”

            Dream, imagine, and take a risk!
 
 
Excerpted from my book,For People of Strength, Soul, and Spirit:
Seven Guidelines for Life & Career Success  http://www.amazon.com/For-People-Strength-Soul-Spirit/dp/1479237019
 

 
 
 

Monday, September 15, 2014

Charge! Four Routes to Your Leadership and Life Purpose



What centers and lights the way for you at your place of being in charge? How do you map your way through life?

Organizational mission statements and strategic plans are designed to provide this scope. In life, we may be faced with many battles. Going up our own rough side of the mountain, it’s important to know why we’re climbing. Is there a vision?

Many events in life are ordained, part of our purpose, and they may involve suffering before victory. Leaders need to be on point. Parents need to be focused. An outcome must be sought, dreams turned into reality. Both are sources for guidance and direction, all for achieving the objective.

For the military, no war is fought without a purpose and a plan. During battle, the purpose is to support and defend while staying alive, willing to sacrifice if necessary, proud to serve!

Cause and direction are essential. This scope is to be drilled down to the lowest level, orienting soldiers to the mission and how to take action. Trickling even further, soldiers are issued a compass as a tool to help them orient themselves to where they are and traverse the battlefield. GPS technology also supports this effort in current times. You can’t win without direction and battle orders.

            Driving was also another area that surfaced quite often in our family gatherings. With two uncles that were long haul truck drivers and another one who traversed the country for his military assignments, I too took on the messages from the open road.  Metaphorical and purposeful, driving offers insights geared to continuing the charge in leadership and life.

            There were four strategies I gleaned from him for the long haul:

 

1.      Define where you are going. So set the coordinates.

 

It starts with a vision.

. “Keep your eyes to the sky,” one of my uncles advised as I took on my first long distance road trip. “Read the directional signs and know the name of the next big location or city you’re headed to. Continue to check your map before you get on the road, and each time you stop for a break, familiarize yourself with your route. This will keep you from getting lost out there. You’ll be all right.”

I was—trip successful.

Lesson link. Put a plan in motion with relevant and actionable steps. Where do you want to go and how do you get there? Be very clear on your coordinates.

 

2.      Open all lanes for learning.

Mistakes, setbacks, and disappointments are inevitable. What will you do with that knowledge? Gridlock and resistance show up. We will have learning curves for him when it comes to earning buy-in from those we lead.

  1. Don’t be afraid to change destination.

Steer on in spite of roadblocks and potholes such as the economy, a career shift, or lost resources. Find a new route. Use another skill to still be of service.

  1. Crank your motivation motor constantly.

Be driven and self-motivated to remain on course. Keep the fuel ignited. Think about why you’re there as a leader. Do you have a passion for your deliverables? Is there a link to your life purpose? Does it afford the flexibility or income potential you seek?



Excerpted from my book, Hardcore Leadership: 11 Master Lessons from My Airborne Ranger Uncle’s “Final Jump”   http://www.amazon.com/dp/1479324760
 

 

Tuesday, July 1, 2014

2014 Mid-Year Review – How Are You Leaning?


Be Inspired and Lean Into Your 2014” is the slogan that came to my mind as the New Year approached. Like many I had several items on my resolutions list, goals of the personal and professional kind, determined to keep me in this motivational state. More business, lose weight, be kind to everyone…, some standard “I’ll do betters and a few different ones sprang up.

So here we are at July 1 and half of this year has quickly gone by. And for me it’s time to assess and ask myself a few questions—to do a mid-year review. Yet another list to respond to: Is there anything I can check off as accomplished? How am I doing overall with those  goals?  Do I really want the answer to these becomes another issue to ponder. Well it was a snowy winter so I didn’t exercise a lot and comfort food eating became the convenient option. Then when I’m truthful with myself, I own up to what did go right, even with a struggle. A few new clients with business travel, different speaking engagements, and author talk/blitz at local libraries.

Revisiting our actions can be difficult, but often necessary. So I’m posting a few inquiries for thought in obtaining inspiring and leaning status.

What inspires you?

How do you lean in to your purpose?

Who are you when your best self is evident?

For many of us, a basic sense of feeling in control of our lives, showing up authentic, taking care of our physical, mental and spiritual being with a healthy sense of self-esteem would be filtered into the answers to those questions.

So why aren’t we always there? What gets in the way or things that become hold backs?

Certainly life’s disappointments, our habits, motivations and perspectives can flow out in each of those areas to send us spiraling downward.

I realized that it’s easy to be caught in a few of those hold back attitudes from achieving my best “inspired lean into”. Letdowns and cookie monsters reigned.

What’s my now?

“You can always begin again” is one of those spiritual sayings that resonates most clearly.

I’m taking a few steps to move forward.  The weight issue was one of my biggest personal challenges, I got way off course. But I’ve been out for walks and workouts over the last month. Momentum is always good! Then while out on a walk one morning, more clarity came in the way of this statement.

Sometimes we all need a little PUSH. Purpose, Understanding, Support, Healing.

But nothing beats the ultimate PUSH. Pray Until Something Happens!

And “your latter can be greater.”

Stay inspired! Keep leaning into this energy!

 

Tuesday, April 15, 2014

Ramp Up! Find Your Life's Reliable Resources


When you have no choice, mobilize the spirit of courage.

Jewish Proverb

 

Driving highways paved through hills and valleys with their times of ascent and descent can be challenging to navigate. The series of moves to accelerate and brake while rounding these hilly curves is hard if you’re behind the wheel of a car—much less a large vehicle such as an 18-wheeler. Due to the design and load of these big-rigs, a more significant increase in speed happens as they head downhill. This could cause these vehicles to run out of control. For this reason there’s a special sign for the big trucks, designating a run-a-way landing area to the side of the road—a safety pull off.  This ramp is a reliable resource. We’re all glad these extra lanes are there and can count on them to serve their purpose—an out allowing time for the driver to regain control of his truck.

            There are life situations in which we need an out as well—to get off the road for a while. After one of my lowest life moments I knew the next phase involved God’s stamped and reliable plan to bring some control back into my journey. The road to entrepreneurship was now beeping on my radar as a likely destination. My trust in His word and presence ran firm in my IPS (Internal Positioning System), but until the plan was fully revealed, I needed income. I’d been working a series of part-time jobs, telemarketing and substitute teaching, but the pay wasn’t meeting my financial needs. I was staying with a friend, but wanted to move into my own place again. My checkbook resembled a rollercoaster of numbers running from a high of some money to a low of no money.

            Then it came to me.

            Maybe I can temporarily return to active duty in the Army while my consulting business was in its gestational period.

            I put the word out to my friends—does anyone know of this need.

            One of my active duty Army friends knew of a defense department director who’d requested a reserve officer to come in and support technology issues in his office for about four months (known as a TTAD—temporary tour of active duty). My friend put us in touch and I was selected for the opportunity. This TTAD fit my goals well and once I was done with that assignment, others became available over the next few years. Those few months of army officer income kept my finances under control until my business could sustain me. I was glad to have this option to depend on during such a critical phase of my career journey. My service to the army was a reliable source in many ways.

            We all need something to fall back on—family, friends, things, opportunities or skills.  These are valuable life resources.

            FAITH 

            This is such an important message in today's world. What was once secure in work and institutions…not so much now.  It does us well to keep all options open. As the saying goes, “A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.” Watching for our own skid marks, let’s sense when life is heading out of control in one of our lanes.

It’s then time to pull over or off and take temporary refuge on solid ground.  

           
            Identify what we can count on when there’s a need to pull off the road.
 
 
Parts excerpted from my motivational autobiography, Navigating Life’s Roadways: Stories of Insight from My Odyssey and Inspiration for Your Journey http://www.amazon.com/dp/B008FQDPYE