Showing posts with label inspiration. Show all posts
Showing posts with label inspiration. Show all posts

Thursday, February 16, 2017

Navigating Life's Mountains and Valleys

Out hiking in 1982


    Not sure what 2017 will bring but know that with God's help, I can climb every mountain! And every valley provides its own type of lessons.  Through it all I know who I can depend on to guide me in navigating strong...A  GPS of God Provided Safety!

Sunday, October 2, 2016

Finding Life's Road to Realization




March on. Do not tarry. To go forward is to move toward perfection. March on, and fear not the thorns, or the sharp stones on life’s path.

Kahil Gibran



            “Life is difficult.” In Dr. M. Scott Peck’s well known book, The Road Less Traveled, this is the first sentence. Startling at first glance, but when we think about these words, it’s very true.  Dr. Peck goes on to say that once we accept this fact, life becomes less difficult because this fact no longer matters.

            Keep going ISO (In Spite of).

            We then focus on the many roads ahead, knowing as we proceed on our odyssey that some truths will become evident. One such truth is that we ourselves sometimes get in our own way and create difficulty. Other times we show out brilliantly, handling our business. Hard stuff happens and none of us are immune. Wonderful times roll around and we all get to celebrate.

            Most of life actualizes somewhere in the middle and that is where we learn—traveling on what appears to be a ‘long and winding’ road.

             I’ve (literally) broken down on the road yet found inspiration in the words of a gospel song that relates, “Nobody told me the road would be easy; I don't believe he brought me this far to leave me.”  These words help me to recognize and use my IPS (Internal Positioning System) more.

            What I’ve come to terms with on this journey we call life is that I have experienced a lot and will experience much more. This range of events has presented many emotions for me, reflective of things I’ve missed and things I’ve cherished. I’m sometimes lonely for a mate, yet proud of what God has allowed me to accomplish. I lament relationships that fell into dysfunction, yet relish those that remain in alignment. I revel in joy over family rites of passage and sometimes sink in sorrow over those who’ve transitioned to be with the Lord. I’ve learned that you can’t always count on those closest to you, but strangers of immense kindness will pass along your way.

            At either end of this spectrum, coping is what we do. We learn how to wipe out and negotiate and handle what’s thrown our way—it’s the Navigator’s mission. Facing the fact that no one roadway will put us exactly where we would like to be, we internalize this tough lesson. With no guarantees for happiness, we reach for it where we can find it. Oftentimes we’ve heard others say (or have thought to ourselves), "If I get this or that then I'll be happy." Trying to keep up with others in current lifestyle trends usually leads to temporary satisfaction, but an ultimate return to dissatisfaction. The important thing is to keep our focus and be optimistic even in the most challenging of times. Where we are is where we are. 


            Understand that the roads of life are best paved with managed expectations.

Excerpted from my motivational autobiography, Navigating Life’s Roadways: Stories of Insight from My Odyssey and Inspiration for Your Journey in print and Kindle eBookhttp://www.amazon.com/dp/B008FQDPYE

Wednesday, July 6, 2016

Success Street: Find Your Unique Position


Every day of your life is a page of your history.
 Arabic proverb

            Success is……I am successful because…I will achieve success when….
            How do you spell success?  “Setbacks Uncovered, Ceasing Control, Excelling Serious Superstar” Sounds good, doesn’t it?
            We’ve all had a win.
            A turn down a new street made some pursuit easy. The right is ours to define what achievements are most measureable and memorable for us.
            Everyone was not meant to have the perfect family, career, finances or material things. Nor do we all want them.  But for each of us there is a unique formula that adds up to a meaningful, productive and constructive journey. In some way we’ve overcome a challenge, let go of a ‘bad trip’ or found a right way.
            In someone’s view, we’re the best ……
            Fill in, keep driving and seeking to form your success.
           

            As we view the film of our lives, let’s claim every win a blockbuster. Visit your Broadway!


Excerpted from my motivational autobiography, Navigating Life’s Roadways: Stories of Insight from My Odyssey and Inspiration for Your Journey in print and Kindle eBookhttp://www.amazon.com/dp/B008FQDPYE

Thursday, March 17, 2016

The Gift in Your DNA


On site at one of my leadership workshops, using my gift to help others...

 

Below is a sermon I preached on using our gifts and talents that God gave us!
 
2 Timothy 1:5-7New International Version (NIV)

5 I am reminded of your sincere faith, which first lived in your grandmother Lois and in your mother Eunice and, I am persuaded, now lives in you also.For this reason I remind you to fan into flame the gift of God, which is in you through the laying on of my hands. For the Spirit God gave us does not make us timid, but gives us power, love and self-discipline.

Today we sometimes face situations in our lives where we’re told what we can and can’t do, swaying us from our capabilities and purpose. Limited opportunities in the job market might cause us feel as though our hands are tied or we’re boxed in from changing our circumstances. Terms such as furloughs, budget cuts and discrimination can bring about fear and discouragement. Even in the church we can get disappointed in service when we can’t see if our work makes a difference. But in this text we are reminded that we must remain faithful because God has gifted us with what we need to move forward in spite of any challenges.

 Because as His creation we’re wired to ‘be all we can be.’ He constructed our human makeup with what is known in science as DNA or Deoxyribonucleic acid, which we learned about in our high school biology classes. the Psalmist tells us that He formed our inward parts; he knitted us together in our mother's womb, fearfully and wonderfully made. Our DNA is also passed down through our ancestral lineage. There is even a test available to find out more about our biological origins.

            And here’s another take, I view the term DNA as Delivered Natural Ability, a gift, a source our omniscient God supplied us with for purpose. Then what can we learn from this text the life of the Apostle Paul about these DNA resources, this man formerly known as Saul of Tarsus, a Christian persecutor who experienced Divine deliverance on a road to Damascus? In the scripture Paul was in a Roman prison and knew his life would soon be over, because he would not be set free this time and more than likely be executed by the authorities. Why? Due to his mission to extend the Gospel of Jesus Christ. Even the conditions of Paul’s imprisonment were different this time; he was chained in a cold cell and had been abandoned by those he thought would co labor with him in the name of Christ.

But Paul did what he could do even in those difficult circumstances. He wrote fearlessly! His talent of having written over 1/2 of the New Testament galvanized the Gospel. In this scriptural letter to Timothy, his son in the faith, he writes to inspire him in the midst of the trials faced by these early Christians. But you know we still face some challenges in the church with even later Christians…and we can get discouraged in service, because church work is not easy…Amen! But now Paul is encouraging Timothy to use what he’s got…even in the toughest of times. In his writing Paul made this prison a pulpit to spread a message of hope because he sensed a low moment in Timothy’s faith. But yet according to Paul’s assessment, Timothy had what he needed from his Delivered Natural Ability. Because Paul and the elders had laid their hands on him, delivered power from the Holy Spirit. And even for us somebody prayed for us, had us on their mind, and said let me lay some hands on that child’ to have better…

So here are three points to further relate how this scripture speak to us today? First we have to recognize our gifts and talents. Romans 12 tells us We have different gifts, according to the grace given to each of us. These gifts can show up as our talents. Either someone remarked that we were born with it, or noted them at a point in our lives. Paul has notices Timothy’s gift for service when they met in Lystra according to Acts 16. Our talents might be in arts, culinary, mechanical, scientific, athletic, musical, educational fields or plain common sense perspectives; the range of what we possess is vast. And like Paul tells Timothy, at times we have to fan into flame or as in other translations it reads kindle afresh, keep ablaze or stir up our gift. Let me pause right here and look at this phrases, especially kindle afresh. For some of us that grew up with wood heaters, you remember how you had to have a piece of kindling wood to get the fire started or when it died down.  We do this now even with fireplaces. Those embers have to be stoked, to strengthen the fire, and the same is true for our mind’s resolve to use our DNA.  Sometimes when we get discouraged we have to strengthen our spark by praising and worshipping God. And as President Obama said in his campaigns, be Fired Up and Ready to Go!

But remember Paul was chained in a cold cell. Then how was he able to write while chained? Evidently his hands were free enough at times or he dictated to visitors or guards who were willing to assist, some rams in the bush.Amen! But think about it, when we don’t use our gifts we can get chained to the wrong thing, be imprisoned by other’s perceptions of us and create our own shackling and not pursue opportunities to use our DNA cells.  Or we may not exercise our gift for fear of being rejected or others thinking ‘ we’re all that.’  Instead let us be on purpose for Him who formed us. And yes we may be abandoned in the process. But remember there is all sufficiency in the Lord, in His grace. And what a constant friend we have in Jesus, who is always by our side!

Secondly we also have Delivered Natural Ability as the result of how parents, caregivers, teachers and our culture have instructed and nurtured us. Back in v. 5 of the scripture Paul notes the faith of Timothy’s mother and grandmother and how strong it dwelled in them. The mention of their faith is designed as an incentive for Timothy. We too have some ancestral reserve of faith and pressing through difficult times, even persecuted for who we are. We’re the product of folks who also operated by their wits. This is a critical part of our DNA and we too should be encouraged by this. I also mentioned that our scientific DNA is hereditary and there’s a biological test to determine our origins. As they say ‘some things do run in the family, or it’s in the genes.” So back in 2009 an uncle and I took this test administered through a company called African Ancestry which specializes in this research.  The female side or matriarchal test I took came back Nigerian of the Yoruba Fulani groups and my uncle’s male or patriarchal test also came back Nigerian of the Ibo group.  Our results matched 100% with current day people living in those areas.  I did a bit more research and discovered that the main staples of those groups is the yam and now know why we love some baked sweet potatoes, candied yams and sweet potato pie! Amen for the yams! Maya Angelou in her poem And Still I Rise reminded us that we come bringing the gifts the ancestors gave; we are the hope and dream of the slave. The skills they brought from the motherland were put to use to survive in this new hostile land.

Our goal is to find these talents and not let others keep us from this treasure. We may not face things of the magnitude in which Paul did, or even our ancestors, but these attributes shelter us in the turmoil of today, becoming our fallback in challenging times. Because we can’t deny that we’ve come this far by faith. God’s Providence is always at work, for progress and for His people. From Selma to Soweto there’ve been faith walks. The old folks, our ancestors learned to make a way out of no way with God.

And thirdly, what do we do with our DNA gifts?  1 Peter 4:10 gives a clear answer here, stating As each has received a gift, use it to serve one another, as good stewards of God's varied grace.

And ultimately, the message here is this: Find and flame this wellspring of gifts. Showcase them for God’s glory! Build on that ancestral reserve of DNA, to not be afraid of the terrors by night or anything that’s trying to block us from our purpose. V. 7 assures us that God has not given us the spirit of fear or timidity But has given us.... power. I was at the airport months ago and saw one of the receptacle stations for charging technology that said, Power, Just When You Need it. That’s what the Holy Spirit is, given to us by an omnipotent God. God gave us His son Jesus as a gift. Delivered in a manager away in Bethlehem, who lived in service, yet was beaten and put in a cell, died on a cross, was buried but rose with all Power.  He loved and loves us that much.

A song that inspires me is Stir Up the Gift!, taken from the words of Paul in our text used in the King James version done  by Joe Pace and the Colorado Mass Choir...

Stir up the gift, Lay your hands on me, Touch me Lord Revive my joy
Make Me, Mold Me, Renew my spirit, Restore my soul
His joy and peace has given us a sound mind
Never should we be afraid Because we have the gift of DNA


Friday, October 17, 2014

Be Tenacious! Ride the Trail of Life's Winds



Tough Times Never last, But Tough People Do!
Title of a book by Revered Robert H. Schuller
On a bike ride on top of a volcano in Maui, 2001


"Hold on!"

            As wild bicycle riders, my play gang during my youth and I would yell these words to each other as we circled the house—jumping ditches or mudholes, cruising over  rocks, knocking over playmates—or anything else in our way—peddling our ‘no speeds’ as hard as we could.  We were usually doubled up on the bike— one doing the leg work while standing— the other one perched on the seat, holding the other's waist, head, arms, or whatever provided the firmest grip. Occasionally, a third person would hop on, riding the handlebar or a rear wheel seat. Fierce and focused for big fun, we rode that limited but challenging route around the house on the bicycle, since we were not allowed to venture out into the road. Occasionally one of us would try to show off and take both hands off of the handlebars…and then everyone fell down. 

            I continued to enjoy biking and at one time lived close to an extensive and intermittently demanding trail in Alexandria VA. The trail’s proximity to the Potomac River brought beauty and peace to the ride for me. However, on windy days this location was particularly challenging. Headwinds coming off the river prevailed, slowing my ride and causing me to hold on tighter when I reached dangerous curves and downhills. I was concerned about falling because in spots the trail was further surrounded by miry marsh and rocky deep ditches. My helmet offered some protection and I shifted gears as necessary to negotiate the path. Those were not times or places for any tricks like riding with my hands off the handle bars. Paying attention to these moments, the call for me was to still ‘hold on’.

            The trails of life can yield weighty winds and stumbling stones, but being steadfast can help us to ride them out. ‘That which doesn’t kill us can make us stronger.’ Let’s maximize our motions. With our protections of faith, creativity and a firm foundation of focus— we can do it. 

            Another one of my favorite gospel songs tells me, ‘Just like a tree that's planted by the water, I shall not be moved.’


            Our talents provide a framework of protection for us to peddle hard on the journey.

Excerpted from my motivational autobiography, Navigating Life’s Roadways: Stories of Insight from My Odyssey and Inspiration for Your Journey in print and Kindle eBook http://www.amazon.com/dp/B008FQDPYE

Tuesday, April 15, 2014

Ramp Up! Find Your Life's Reliable Resources


When you have no choice, mobilize the spirit of courage.

Jewish Proverb

 

Driving highways paved through hills and valleys with their times of ascent and descent can be challenging to navigate. The series of moves to accelerate and brake while rounding these hilly curves is hard if you’re behind the wheel of a car—much less a large vehicle such as an 18-wheeler. Due to the design and load of these big-rigs, a more significant increase in speed happens as they head downhill. This could cause these vehicles to run out of control. For this reason there’s a special sign for the big trucks, designating a run-a-way landing area to the side of the road—a safety pull off.  This ramp is a reliable resource. We’re all glad these extra lanes are there and can count on them to serve their purpose—an out allowing time for the driver to regain control of his truck.

            There are life situations in which we need an out as well—to get off the road for a while. After one of my lowest life moments I knew the next phase involved God’s stamped and reliable plan to bring some control back into my journey. The road to entrepreneurship was now beeping on my radar as a likely destination. My trust in His word and presence ran firm in my IPS (Internal Positioning System), but until the plan was fully revealed, I needed income. I’d been working a series of part-time jobs, telemarketing and substitute teaching, but the pay wasn’t meeting my financial needs. I was staying with a friend, but wanted to move into my own place again. My checkbook resembled a rollercoaster of numbers running from a high of some money to a low of no money.

            Then it came to me.

            Maybe I can temporarily return to active duty in the Army while my consulting business was in its gestational period.

            I put the word out to my friends—does anyone know of this need.

            One of my active duty Army friends knew of a defense department director who’d requested a reserve officer to come in and support technology issues in his office for about four months (known as a TTAD—temporary tour of active duty). My friend put us in touch and I was selected for the opportunity. This TTAD fit my goals well and once I was done with that assignment, others became available over the next few years. Those few months of army officer income kept my finances under control until my business could sustain me. I was glad to have this option to depend on during such a critical phase of my career journey. My service to the army was a reliable source in many ways.

            We all need something to fall back on—family, friends, things, opportunities or skills.  These are valuable life resources.

            FAITH 

            This is such an important message in today's world. What was once secure in work and institutions…not so much now.  It does us well to keep all options open. As the saying goes, “A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.” Watching for our own skid marks, let’s sense when life is heading out of control in one of our lanes.

It’s then time to pull over or off and take temporary refuge on solid ground.  

           
            Identify what we can count on when there’s a need to pull off the road.
 
 
Parts excerpted from my motivational autobiography, Navigating Life’s Roadways: Stories of Insight from My Odyssey and Inspiration for Your Journey http://www.amazon.com/dp/B008FQDPYE
 
 

 

Thursday, January 23, 2014

Navigate Strong! Finding Your Life's Road of Reality





March on. Do not tarry. To go forward is to move toward perfection. March on, and fear not the thorns, or the sharp stones on life’s path.

Kahil Gibran

 

            “Life is difficult.” In Dr. M. Scott Peck’s well known book, The Road Less Traveled, this is the first sentence. Startling at first glance, but when we think about these words, it’s very true.  Dr. Peck goes on to say that once we accept this fact, life becomes less difficult because this fact no longer matters.

            Keep going ISO (In Spite of).

            We then focus on the many roads ahead, knowing as we proceed on our odyssey that some truths will become evident. One such truth is that we ourselves sometimes get in our own way and create difficulty. Other times we show out brilliantly, handling our business. Hard stuff happens and none of us are immune. Wonderful times roll around and we all get to celebrate.

            Most of life actualizes somewhere in the middle and that is where we learn—traveling on what appears to be a ‘long and winding’ road.

             I’ve (literally) broken down on the road yet found inspiration in the words of a gospel song that relates, “Nobody told me the road would be easy; I don't believe he brought me this far to leave me.”  These words help me to recognize and use my IPS (Internal Positioning System) more.

            What I’ve come to terms with on this journey we call life is that I have experienced a lot and will experience much more. This range of events has presented many emotions for me, reflective of things I’ve missed and things I’ve cherished. I’m sometimes lonely for a mate, yet proud of what God has allowed me to accomplish. I lament relationships that fell into dysfunction, yet relish those that remain in alignment. I revel in joy over family rites of passage and sometimes sink in sorrow over those who’ve transitioned to be with the Lord. I’ve learned that you can’t always count on those closest to you, but strangers of immense kindness will pass along your way.

            At either end of this spectrum, coping is what we do. We learn how to wipe out and negotiate and handle what’s thrown our way—it’s the Navigator’s mission. Facing the fact that no one roadway will put us exactly where we would like to be, we internalize this tough lesson. With no guarantees for happiness, we reach for it where we can find it. Oftentimes we’ve heard others say (or have thought to ourselves), "If I get this or that then I'll be happy." Trying to keep up with others in current lifestyle trends usually leads to temporary satisfaction, but an ultimate return to dissatisfaction. The important thing is to keep our focus and be optimistic even in the most challenging of times. Where we are is where we are. 

 

            Understand that the roads of life are best paved with managed expectations.

 

Excerpted from my motivational autobiography, Navigating Life’s Roadways: Stories of Insight from My Odyssey and Inspiration for Your Journey in print and Kindle eBook http://www.amazon.com/dp/B008FQDPYE

 

 


Tuesday, August 27, 2013

Letdown Lessons: A Way to Land Up!




Unrelenting disappointment leaves you heartsick,
but a sudden good break can turn life around.

Proverbs 13: 12

 

 People disappoint. Situations don’t always turn out the way we’d like. Folks don’t always do right or treat you right. Family and others take advantage. Whether it’s a friend reneging on a promise, a client cancelling an engagement, a manager not following through on a personnel action or a family member not living up to expectations— these occurrences can sear your soul. Disappointment can shake the foundation of trust and sometimes dealing with it is hard.

            It’s also difficult to explain these types of emotional jabs that come with the territory of our trek to kids, but we must try.

            My youngest niece wanted to have a 13th birthday party in August of 2010 and posted her invitation on Facebook. Only a few friends responded yes and when they saw that others weren’t coming, they withdrew their responses to attend.

            She cancelled the party.

            Upset, my niece then went on Facebook the afternoon the party would’ve happened and saw that some of the invited kids were online. She was very hurt, posting comments to that effect and lashed out angrily. If they were online that meant they weren’t busy and could have come to the party. The reasons why some of the kids couldn’t attend were probably varied, but it didn’t matter to her. This was a huge disappointment at a special yet challenging time in her life. Turning 13 is a big deal, marking the teenage transition. This disappointment added to the loss of her “Nanny's sunset” a few months earlierthose emotions still tugging at her heart’s core—made this even tougher on her. I tried to encourage her and she put up a brave front. We also talked about her comments in reaction to the disappointment on Facebook. I pointed out that a forum as large as Facebook was probably not the best place to vent and suggested she put her special emotional thoughts in her journal instead.

            How will we settle our spirits after disappointment? 

            Thoughts such as “well, it happens, “this too shall pass, “I may be down but not out” or “every dog has his day” may provide some temporary relief. In my niece’s situation, the venting of her feelings served a purposeshe got the emotions out. I also encouraged her to think about the lessons her “Nanny” had shared with her about growing up. I wanted to support her during this time of need so I gave her a birthday card with a monetary gift enclosed in memory of her grandmother and I took her on a day trip to Virginia Beach. She was elated over my gestures. We had a fun aunt-niece day at the beach. Nothing like playing in the ocean to wash our sorrows off— we both needed it. When we got back from our trip my niece wrote on Facebook about her “awesome time” at the beach.

            After school started my niece took another step forward to shake off the birthday disappointment; she ran for and won an election for eighth grade class senator. 

            You go, girl!

           
            When we feel letdown, wait for the energy to mount up and conquer. The sun will rise again!


Excerpted from my motivational autobiography, Navigating Life’s Roadways: Stories of Insight from My Odyssey and Inspiration for Your Journey in print and Kindle eBook http://www.amazon.com/dp/B008FQDPYE



 

Sunday, June 23, 2013

Saturday, May 25, 2013

Memorial Day: Honoring The Ancestors of a Different Battle

“I would fight for my liberty so long as my strength lasted, and if the time came for me to go, the Lord would let them take me.”
 
            My maternal grandfather, Joseph (Joe) Everett Parker, Sr., honored our history and this holiday in a different way.  On Memorial Day during the 1960s, the children of the family accompanied him on an ancestral voyage.  We went to the burial grounds of his parents and other relatives, some who were born slaves or in the reconstruction era. Here he honored their service. Because they had fought for racial freedom, persevering and sacrificing in the most horrid of conditions. I call them ‘old soldiers’ too, experienced on the battlefield of life.
            The grave sites were located way back off a rural road, some 15 miles or so from our home in Waverly Virginia.  In preparation for the trip my grandfather loaded up his tools to attend to the publicly neglected graves. At that time, black people could not be buried in our town’s cemetery. So most of the graves were located out in the "country" on traditional church grounds or old family sites. 
            As rather adventurous children who loved treats, we were excited about these outings with my grandfather for a couple of reasons. This was another chance to be away from home while enjoying the outside. And as part of this ritual my grandfather stopped at the local store and bought the makings for a good sandwich; bread, baloney, mayonnaise, and grape Nehi sodas—our favorite ‘poor folks’ snack.          
            Back then the significance of this cemetery ritual was lost on our young minds.  We watched my grandfather clear the weeds and wild growth from the place where his folks lay.  Delicately, he touched the mounds of dirt with his hoe or pitchfork, clearing the brush as he went about his task.  This was a sacred place. After the work was done, my grandfather bent his head.  He cried.  He prayed.  He paid homage to the souls of our kindred spirits.  In spite of his exhibits of strength and occasional “hell raising”, my grandfather was at times a very sentimental and emotional man. I value this understanding about my grandfather.
            Joe Parker’s sense of history and roots were firm and unknowingly he passed it down through the generations in a special way. I remember, this is an important part of our legacy. And I write about these unsung and enduring heroes whose acts of bravery in the enemy’s camp for humanity have made my progress so. They won!
 
Excerpted from my upcoming book, TOOLS TO CULTIVATE THE PROMISED LAND: Working Wisdom from My Grandparent’s Garden, October 2013
 
 
With my grandfather in 1982

Monday, February 25, 2013

Success: Define and Claim the Destination

Let’s look at the definition of success itself. For each of us it can be different, based on who and where we are and how we dream of the future. From employment in a job or career that provides fulfillment, to the ability to take care of a family, to economic stability, to being a good neighbor, to being respected in the community and place of worship, to being in good physical health or having solid, loving relationships—the range of how success is defined is personal.

            Prosperity on these important fronts brings its own richness to life; degreed or not, color of the collar in your work situation, address of your residence, cash flow stuck or surging, bounty or barely holding on. Recognize your personal obligations that prevent or propel. You call your life as you see it. Are you in a sweet enriching spot or rotting hole? Prosperity can be rooted in the emotional—peace of mind or strong faith. No locked in worries. Passionate about other your interests or hobbies? Satisfied or wanting a change? Your choice and your challenge. Figure and define.

            Our ambitions along with our own measure of strength, soul, and spirit add to the meaning of success. To claim this status, let’s start by discovering and working on eliminating any barriers to our personal progress.

            Are you stationed and ready?


Make It Your Vision


“Every great dream begins with a dreamer. Always remember, you have within you the strength, the patience, and the passion to reach for the stars to change the world.”

Harriet Tubman

Conductor, The Underground Railroad


            Whatever success looks like in time, energy, money, effort or even loss, make the picture of your envisioned reality as plain as it needs to be. Imagine your career … Imagine your family …

            The dream triggers this new thing that you want. Measureable and to the point is how to capture this goal. Questions to ask yourself are: How badly do you want … ? What am I willing to go through to get it?

            Only you have the answer.

            As Earth, Wind and Fire sing, “Keep your head to the sky.”

            Dream. Imagine. Take a risk.


Back On Track? The Way Forward


            First, fortify for the opposing forces and be sure you know the truth about yourselves, and your purpose. Read positive, recent, and industry targeted information. Don't rely solely on the local newspaper or the broadcasts for accurate accounts of your life or situation in America. Proceed with caution with some of the online sites. Be ready and resilient in pursuing what’s for you.  Rightly know your personal constitution. Use your IPS (internal positioning system) to guide you.

            We now become the Griots of our struggles and story. Having our own main track of information is a great place to start! Shoulder these pillars as your guidelines and go. Find your beacon. Help yourself and others continuously along the way. Pace yourself. Be gentle. Realize that sometimes along the way we all need a little PUSH.

Purpose, Understanding, Support, Healing.